Search me, O God....
One of the important insights I have gained while working with women who have left abusive relationships is that we need to not have an abusive relationship with ourselves. We can separate ourselves from anyone who treats us cruelly but if we disrespect ourselves, mistreat ourselves, or speak harshly to ourselves, we are still not free of abuse. What does this have to do with this blog? with Lent? Well, the flip side is also true. If we treat ourselves like Scripture commands us to treat others, then we will have a godly relationship with ourselves.* Recently, when I read instructions about how I am to treat others, I ask myself: do I obey this command toward myself? Today I have one verse I want to focus on: 1 Thessalonians 5:14 "And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone." (NIV) I love this verse. I love it because Paul is so realistic - p...