Love and Discernment
"Why did I say that?" This is what ran through my minds seconds after I said it. We were talking about the need for both love and discernment in our Philippians Bible Study and I made a statement that love "is willing to do whatever it takes". "But I don't believe that anymore," I thought to myself. The conversation moved on and so did my thoughts. It wasn't until later in the day that I returned to my questions about what love is willing to do. Let me rewind. In my late 20's, I was convinced that loving others meant "doing whatever it takes" to help them. Love is to be self-sacrificing and Jesus had said, " greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends " (John 15:13 NIV). I assumed this meant if I just gave enough, things would get better. And when they didn't, I grew anxious. Somehow I knew I wasn't living the kind of love Jesus was talking about but I wasn't sur...